so i met dipna and her brothers a while ago, and we talked things out. found out where i went wrong and i'm gonna try make things better in future, for other people as well as myself. though it was pretty funny how i imagined things to be, that they heard more bad than good stuff, and apparently it affected how they saw things on a whole..a whole lot of other things that needed clearing up 'cause they had inaccurate information, one brother being pretty hostile in the way he talked, but that's besides the point...

they're her brothers after all, and who but no one would expect them not to vouch for her without a bias stance? (:

things are sorted out anyway, guess it was handled really maturely by both sides, for once.

& like she and i used to say... "don't worry, things will be okay in the end".. i guess it is true in its sense up till even now. all's well that ends well; it's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved before.

thank you for all those happy and bad times. happy, needless to say; but bad, because it's let me know myself and become a better person. 'nuff zed.